There's been laughter at every funeral I've ever attended, often from the people most deeply affected. Someone starts telling a story....

Jack and Bjorn needed each other because they both loved and lost, but there's a barrier between them, too, built of all Jack's secrets.

And I'm sure Bjorn's grief doubled Jack's, although probably Bjorn felt a little better for sharing. Jack would consider that an acceptable cost. He's such a hero in every way. *admires*